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Allyson Shaffer

Allyson Shaffer

LICSW, LCSW-C · Maryland

Calm support for stressful life changes

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  • Strengths-focused approach
  • Practical coping skills
  • Experience with adoption

About Allyson

Allyson Shaffer is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people navigate stress, anxiety, loss, and life transitions. She works from a strengths-focused perspective and treats each person as the expert on their own story. Allyson encourages small, practical steps that move people toward clearer goals and more manageable days.

With two decades of clinical experience, she draws on a range of evidence-based therapeutic techniques to address issues like depression, panic attacks, trauma and abuse, and compassion fatigue. She also supports people dealing with adoption and foster care questions, attachment concerns, caregiving stress, and challenges tied to family of origin or multicultural pressures.

Sessions typically focus on straight talk and practical tools. Allyson aims to help people identify patterns, build coping skills, and improve communication. She works with clients on parenting stress, relationship strain, grief, and the emotional fallout from separation or divorce.

Allyson holds LICSW licensure in the District of Columbia and LCSW-C licensure in Maryland. Her style is collaborative and paced to each person’s needs, helping people set achievable goals and try new strategies between sessions.

People who choose her often want clear guidance without jargon. She offers a calm, steady presence while helping clients test new ways of handling emotions, reduce overwhelm, and reconnect to what matters to them.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Allyson uses a mix of practical, evidence-based techniques that focus on skills and problem solving. One common approach helps people learn concrete coping skills for anxiety and panic attacks, such as breathing strategies, grounding techniques, and step-by-step plans to face feared situations. Another common thread is work on attachment and relationships, which looks at communication habits and helps people try new ways of connecting and setting boundaries.

Choosing the right approach is a team effort. Allyson will talk with each person about their goals, try different strategies, and adjust plans over time. Therapy is presented as a series of experiments and small changes rather than a one-size-fits-all program.

Confirm the current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life - for example, shorter check-ins around a work break or appointments that avoid travel time. It can also allow someone to meet with a licensed professional from different locations within Maryland, helping therapy become a more manageable part of daily routines.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

District of Columbia, Maryland

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with a broad range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and compassion fatigue. Additional focus areas include adoption and foster care, attachment issues, caregiver stress, and communication problems.

What is her style of therapy like?

Her approach is collaborative and strengths-based, focused on practical strategies and skills. Sessions emphasize clear goals and steps people can try between visits.

How long has she been practicing clinically?

She has 20 years of professional clinical experience working with people across many life challenges.

Where is she licensed and located?

She holds LICSW licensure in the District of Columbia and LCSW-C licensure in Maryland and practices in Maryland.

Can I work with her if English is not my first language?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to try therapy?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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