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Elly Oka

Elly Oka

BACP · United Kingdom

Compassionate, practical support for life changes

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  • Goal focused
  • Strengths based
  • Practical tools

About Elly

Elly Oka is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety and depression. She also supports those coping with trauma and abuse, self-esteem problems, relationship strain and career difficulties. Her approach is practical and straightforward, aimed at helping people take small steps towards a more manageable life.

Elly works in a way that puts the client’s experience first. She treats the person, not just the problem, and encourages people to use their own strengths. Sessions focus on clear goals and useful skills, with room to talk through feelings and past experiences.

Her background includes five years of professional practice and registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. That experience informs how she balances talking, listening and practical exercises in sessions.

Elly draws on a mix of approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy. She adapts techniques to the needs of each person rather than following a single method.

People approaching adoption or foster care matters may find her understanding of abandonment, attachment and family-related concerns helpful. She also helps with grief, parenting strain, chronic illness, compassion fatigue and life transitions.

Sessions are conducted in English and international clients may be accepted. Prospective clients are invited to use the site’s Start Therapy process to match and schedule a meeting with Elly.

How Elly uses therapeutic approaches online

Elly often draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based work to support people dealing with ongoing stress and relationship questions. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify what matters most and learn small actions they can take despite uncomfortable thoughts or feelings. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds affect current relationships and helps people understand and change patterns that cause hurt.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Elly will discuss options and try methods that match a person’s goals and preferences. She aims to make decisions together so the plan fits what the client wants to achieve.

The practical benefits of online therapy can include fitting sessions into a busy day and reducing travel time. For details about how sessions are offered, prospective clients should confirm current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to maintain ongoing contact while balancing family, work and other responsibilities.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Solution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Elly commonly help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, along with relationship and career concerns. Additional areas include parenting strain, grief and adoption and foster care related worries.

What is Elly's therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and person-centred, combining listening with exercises and small goal-setting. She encourages people to use their own strengths while working towards clearer steps.

What experience does she have?

Elly has five years of professional experience working with a range of emotional and life issues. That background shapes a flexible, outcome-minded way of working.

What credentials and region apply?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can clients join from other countries?

International clients may be accepted; check local regulations and suitability during the matching process.

How are sessions paid for?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Elly?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist’s availability.

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