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Hayley Blacker

Hayley Blacker

BACP · United Kingdom

Warm, practical counselling for everyday struggles

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  • Calm non-judgemental space
  • Practical relationship work
  • Supports grief and trauma

About Hayley

Hayley Blacker is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom with three years of professional experience and registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She focuses on helping people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, low mood and relationship difficulties. Hayley aims to make the first step into therapy feel manageable and respects the courage it takes to begin.

Hayley creates a calm, non-judgemental space for people to talk through what matters to them. She listens for patterns in relationships, reactions and day-to-day coping. Conversations are practical and grounded, not overloaded with technical language. Clients can expect straightforward reflection and gentle challenge when it helps.

Her work includes supporting people through trauma, grief and loss, and she also offers help with issues such as addictions, intimacy concerns, body image and caregiver stress. Hayley is experienced with a range of emotional struggles including anger, self-esteem and the ups and downs of life like career change and coping with chronic illness.

Hayley has an interest in adoption and foster care matters and in attachment-related themes. She also works with matters linked to neurodiversity and relationship styles such as BDSM and kink, always keeping the conversation respectful and practical. She uses different ways of working to find what helps each person most.

If you want to start, the usual path is to use the Start Therapy button and complete a short questionnaire to match with her, then schedule a session according to availability. Sessions are conducted in English and international clients can be considered.

Therapeutic approaches used online and how they help

Attachment-Based work pays attention to how early and important relationships shape feelings and expectations. It can help people understand relationship patterns and rebuild trust in close connections. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on empathy, active listening and accepting the person’s experience. That approach helps people find their own solutions at a pace that feels right. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) looks at emotional patterns in relationships and helps people access and express core feelings in a way that can change how they relate to others.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Hayley will discuss different ways of working and match her approach to your needs, goals and preferences. This is a collaborative process where you set priorities and she helps you try methods that feel useful.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the exact session formats available before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also suit people who prefer not to be on camera or who need a quieter space at certain times. Ask about scheduling and format options when you complete the matching questionnaire so arrangements suit your everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Psychodynamic TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Hayley help with?

Hayley supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, eating and sleeping issues, parenting strain, and many other life challenges.

What is Hayley’s therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm and down-to-earth. She listens closely, offers practical reflections and gentle challenge, and keeps language simple so conversations feel clear and usable.

How much experience does she have?

She has three years of professional work experience in the United Kingdom supporting a range of emotional and relational issues.

What credential does Hayley hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are accepted; check session scheduling and any regional considerations when you book.

How are sessions arranged and what about cost?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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