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Patience Destiny

Patience Destiny

BACP · United Kingdom

Practical, values-led counselling for life changes

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  • Warm interactive style
  • Values and action focused
  • Adoption and foster care

About Patience

Patience Destiny is a BACP counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, grief and relationship strain. She works with issues around eating and body image, addiction, self-esteem and career worries. She also supports people dealing with adoption and foster care concerns, attachment and family of origin difficulties.

Her style is warm and interactive and she aims to make sessions feel straightforward and practical. Conversations are tailored to each person and their life. She pays attention to humour, creative interests and everyday strengths when that feels helpful.

Patience draws on a mix of approaches to match what a person needs in the moment. She uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people clarify values and take workable steps. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy tools are offered for managing thoughts and behaviours that cause distress.

Client-Centred and Narrative ideas shape how stories and experiences are heard, while mindfulness practices are used to calm the body and focus attention. She describes therapy as a collaborative process where the client’s knowledge of their life guides the work.

Patience has been practising for 13 years and works with people in the United Kingdom and internationally. Her registration is with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. Sessions follow a structure agreed with each person and are adjusted as needs evolve.

To begin, she asks people to complete a short matching questionnaire and then to schedule according to the available times.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Patience commonly uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which helps people identify what matters to them and take small, practical steps towards those values. ACT is useful for anxiety, low mood and life transitions because it focuses on action rather than simply reducing symptoms.

She also draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to spot unhelpful patterns of thinking and behaviour and to try different ways of responding. CBT tends to be practical and goal oriented, which can suit people wanting concrete tools to manage anxiety or low mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and day-to-day realities, then suggest which methods to try. This is a collaborative decision and plans are adjusted over time to fit what is helpful.

The profile does not list specific online session formats, so please confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals can offer the same kinds of therapeutic conversations and practical tools online as they do in person, while working with each person to choose a pace and style that fits their situation.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyGriefEating disordersSelf esteemCoaching

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Patience commonly address?

She works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, grief, eating and body image problems, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, depression, coping with life changes and compassion fatigue.

What is her therapeutic approach like?

Her style is warm and interactive, combining several approaches to suit each person. Sessions focus on practical steps, values, and making sense of personal stories.

How much experience does she have?

She has 13 years of experience working with people on a broad range of emotional and life challenges.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's available times.

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